The Eye Drops Doriana was a complete stranger until I met her at Ollie's and Ceylin's CMU pond picnic. I saw her put eye drops on her eyes. I said there is a better, natural and cost-effective way to moisturize the eyes through yoga. She asked that I do it, and not just explain. So, on the spot, I conducted trataka shatkriya, surya pradarshini mudra and sambhavi mudra. She felt an immediate relief. Only then did she inquire what else I knew. She asked if I can conduct classes for her to gain flexibility and strength through yoga.
The 180-Minute Classes We scheduled 2 one-hour yoga classes/week for a month, but always, the classes would almost reach 3 hours - including our informal coffee time. It was a mix of theory and practice - more like a workshop than a flow practice followed by an informal coffee conversation. It was important for me to let her know why we were doing certain things. With understanding, she would better appreciate the process.
Doriana was devoted to her practice
8 Limbs of Yoga While the classes were supposed to be about flexibility and strength through yoga, I simply made them just the focus, but not its entirety. She also wanted transformation. For that, I had to touch on all the 8 limbs of yoga - not just asana.
Pranayama Pranayama would play a big role in our class - bhastrika, kapalabhati, anuloma viloma, ujjayi and the Wim Hof breathing. She would notice the immediate energetic upliftment of not just breathing right, but harnessing the power of the breath.
Yama and Niyama It is not possible to practice these first 2 limbs of yoga as they translate into moral conduct to self and society. For this aspect, I gave her homework.
Homework In order to practice the other aspects of yoga outside the mat, I gave her homework after every class.
awareness - we can only practice free will when we are aware -otherwise, we simply go about our day on auto-pilot. To develop the habit of awareness in her, I asked her to put her alarm on the hour, every hour. When it alarms, she stops whatever she's doing and takes a full yogic breath, being aware of her here-and-now. It only takes a few seconds, and she can resume whatever she was doing. I learned this practice at the Plum Village when I was teaching English to the monastics.
single-use plastic - I asked her to minimize the use of single-use plastic and even bring a Tupperware with her when she goes shopping. Plastic almost invariably ends up in the oceans and eaten by fish...and then they die. By caring for the planet, I was introducing the concept of yama, the first limb of yoga - moral conduct towards the external.
cold showers - the 2nd limb of yoga is niyama - a moral conduct about the self. Under niyama is tapas(austerity). For this, Doriana's homework was to take cold showers - no more hot showers. By doing things the hard way instead of the convenient way, and taking ownership of the practice, she fortifies her mind. When the mind is toughened, very few hurts in life can affect you. In the Japanese tradition of the Bushido, there is a saying, "cry in the dojo, laugh in the battlefield".
walking instead of riding - again, this is in line with tapas. For distances less than 1 kilometer, Doriana has to walk. This not only develops tapas but fitness. She needs to be fit as well.
fasting - fasting for a 24-hour period once a week. This gives the digestive system a break, conserves energy (as digestion consumes a lot of energy) and results in a lightness of being after the fast.
abs - do 10 SLOW abdominal repetitions before leaving the bed, DAILY.
Friday 10 leg raises
Saturday 10 crunches
Sunday 10 flutter kicks
Monday 10 hip raises
Tuesday 10 seated in-and-out
Wednesday...see you for class
meditation before going to sleep - we took up many types of meditation and she was free to use what best suits her at the moment - anapana(observing breath), vipassana(scanning the body), and nada(observing sound)
Bedside Practice Most early practitioners feel the need for a teacher or a studio to continue their practice. This shouldn't be so. Home practice is far better. With the conclusion of the initial program, I gave Doriana this set of home practice to be done BEFORE she even leaves her bed. This ensures the practice is done regularly.
1) ABS Day - the initial number of repetitions is until point-of-failure. One more rep is added on the next workout. Some asanas are to be done on the edge of the bed so parts of the body are hanging - to intensify the routine. All asanas to be followed by 30 Wim Hof breaths with a breath-hold on the last exhale.
leg raises - do this by the edge of the bed so the legs have no support and can be lowered down further.
crunches
side bends - lying on the side, lift the legs and shoulders, arching the body and contracting the oblique muscles. Do the other side.
Superwoman - lying flat on the stomach with outstretched arms, lift the chest and thighs and hold while breathing. Measure the time and add 2 seconds more on the next session.
This workout develops the lower and upper abs, the obliques and the lower back muscles - a full 360°fortification. After this, the body would have heated up, the asanas and pranayama are already done. You can stop at this point and begin the day. OR, this can be further followed up by stretches on all other parts of the body with more ABS asanas and pranayama. BUT it's important to finish the basic set.
after rising up from bed and leaving the room, perform water therapy with nauli before starting the day
2) Muscle and Strength Day - the initial number of repetitions is until point-of-failure. One more rep is added on the next workout. All movements are done very slow - no momentum and no help from gravity. All asanas to be followed by 30 Wim Hof breaths with breath-hold on the last exhale.
plank - this can be done on the bed with knees instead of feet. After this, the body should be warmed-up and activated to continue on the floor. Measured by time. Add 2 seconds more on the next session.
chair pose on a wall - measured by time. Add 2 seconds more on the next session.
squats
calf raises
push-up - later when the plank becomes easy.
after rising up from bed and leaving the room, perform water therapy with nauli before starting the day
Coffee and Bread This is our post-yoga class ritual. We would hang out in the garden and enjoy coffee and homemade bread as we talk about many things, mostly related to life, yoga and the bigger picture at large. In a way, this is an informal extension of our classes where I get to share my insight about yoga outside the mat.
coffee and bread would be our post-class ritual
Ending Thoughts Doriana is a quick study. She gets it, and more importantly, she puts in the work. For transformation, 3 things need to happen:
awareness that something needs to be done - most people don't even realize they're a train wreck and go through life thinking what they're going through is normal. With some mindfulness, some realize they're actually fucked-up and they need to do something about it. Some stop at this awareness and do nothing - they usually end up complaining that life is not fair. Some seek a greater understanding of what's happening. They become the seekers.
knowing what needs to be done - to those who seek understanding (thru a doctor? guru? wise elder? research?), a way out is given. Through critical thinking, they see the merit of the program and may supplement their learning through added knowledge, research and exploring like-minded communities. They gain knowledge and understanding. Again, a lot stop there at intellectual adventurism. They talk the talk and pontificate about dhamma and self-realization but remain a train wreck. They would find excuses why they cannot do the actual hard work. They think they can intellectualize their way into transformation.
doing the actual work - it doesn't need a strong body to do the work - it needs a strong mind. And the few who take this last step benefit from a stronger body, fortified mind and heightened level of perception. Layers of reality are peeled away and wisdom is gained. These are the people who actually transform themselves.
With other students who simply attend one of my classes, I am restricted to focus on that particular class. However, with Doriana, even though the mandate was simply for flexibility and strength, I could package the entire 1-month program to include the 8 limbs of yoga - from moral conduct(yama and niyama), to fortifying the body(asana and pranayama), and finally to sharpen the mind(pratyahara, dharana and dhyana) and have it resonate to a higher frequency where she begins to attract people, events, and opportunities supporting that new vibration. What does that mean? It means severing the vicious loop that keeps repeating itself. It means evolving. Ultimately, it means having strength, happiness, and peace of mind for a balanced and more meaningful life. That is yoga.
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Chiang Mai INFORMATION
Chiang Mai Map
Chiang Mai, Thailand
IMPORTANT PLACES
Bus Station Train Station Chiang Mai International Airport Nong Buak Hard Park - free yoga classes daily
HOTEL
Arun Dara Villa - 7 exclusive rooms, 1 swimming pool for every room, grand opening
Nawa Sheeva Hotel - big rooms, high ceiling, salt-water pool, restaurant, cafe
Nawa Saraan Hotel - low density (4 spacious rooms), stone garden setting, Koi fish pond, Old City location
Arun Suite - 3 bedrooms in a 3-storie guesthouse within Old City, ideal for families
MOTORBIKE RENTAL
Tawan Bike - motorcycle rental | +66 91 635 2863 | Si Phum, Mueang Chiang Mai District, Chiang Mai 50200
Chiang Mai FYI / Tips
crop-burning season in Chiang Mai is between late Feb to early April. But laws change everytime. This year, 2019, there is a 61-day ban on burning so the farmers started burning early. When my plane was approaching Chiang Mai on Jan 24, 2019, there was already a thick blanket of smog covering the entire city (and beyond). But within the city itself, you won't feel it (but that doesn't mean the air is healthy). To monitor air conditions in real time, refer to site: Chiang Mai Air Pollution: Real-time Air Quality Index (AQI)
hot season begins March and lasts until June
wet season begins July and lasts until September
best time to visit Chiang Mai is mid-September to mid-February - after the monsoon and before the burning
you have to try Khao Soi, this is north Thailand's culinary staple
the tourist area where most of the hotels, restaurants, ticket offices, tour operators are, is located in the Old City
to exchange your dollars to Thai Baht, the Super Rich Money Exchange give the best rates. There are many branches scattered around Chiang Mai
get a red cab (songthao) outside the train station for Baht 50 (instead of paying B100 if inside the train station) to Old City - if you haggle nicely enough...I did!
shared red taxi (songthao) - B30 standard fare plying all over Old City
for only B50/day, best to rent a bike to go around the Old City - it's a 2.5km2 with lots to discover
FREE daily yoga classes from 9:00am to 10:15am at Nong Buak Hard Park (southwest corner of Old City). Resident and passing-through teachers take turns conducting yoga classes.
Blues/Jazz Bars in Chiang Mai
North Gate Jazz Coop - at Chang Phueg Gate, great Tuesday jam session, Blues on Sundays at 11pm by the Chiang Mai Blues band
Boy Blues Bar - at the Night Bazaar. Mondays at 9:30pm is open mic
My Secret Cafe - near Wat Phra Singh. Tuesdays at 7:30pm for the changing front-act and 9:00pm for the Panic Band
Taphae East - 88 Thapae Rd. (just north of Night Bazaar). Fridays at 9:30pm by Chiang Mai Blues Band
Chiang Mai Cost Index
B60 Chiang beer
B250 1 hour drop-in yoga session
B200 one hour Thai body massage at WAYA Massage(highly recommended)
B50 noodle soup with meat
B50 coffee
B40 pad thai
B30/kilo wash-only laundry
B50/kilo wash+iron laundry
B100-150 dorm bed/night
B250 fan room/night
B30 internet cafe/hour
B170-190 Movies Sat-Sun and public holidays
B130-150 Movies weekdays
B100 Movies Wednesdays (movie discount day)
B750 1/2 day Thai cooking lessons
B900-1000 1 full day Thai cooking lessons
B400 Muay Thai boxing ticket
B2500 starting room rate at the luxury hotel, Nawa Sheeva(highly recommended)
Transportation
B450 bus, Chiang Mai to Bangkok
B160-180 bus, Chiang Mai to Pai
B1250 bus, Chiang Mai to Luang Prabang
B1650 slow boat, Chiang Mai to Luang Prabang
B210 bus, Chiang Mai to Chiang Rai, 3-4 hours
B360 Green VIP bus, Chiang Mai to Mae Sai (Thai border town for visa run to Tachileik, Myanmar)
B50 bicycle rental, 24 hours
B200 motorbike rental, 24 hours
B273 #51 sleeping train from Bangkok to Chiang Mai
Book Online - direct booking with State Railway of Thailand. Best to register first. If going to BKK from CNX, click "Northern Line".
note -- big difference between booking direct with the State Railway and booking with an online 3rd party agent. 12GO was charging B1330 for the same trip that only cost me B941 with the State Railway.
note -- Oct 2022, I took the #10 Train from CNX to BKK, upper berth, 2nd class, a/c, sleeper, B941. The train was clean, fast, comfortable and modern. If you have heavy luggage that will cost more money in flight checkin, I would suggest this train. Otherwise, the flight now is so much cheaper it doesn't even make sense to take the bus or train.
Bangkok to Chiang Mai by Train from Bang Sue Train Station
10:22pm - #51 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 12:10pm, sleeper, 3rd class B270 (non sleeper), 2nd class B438, B728 upper deck, B798 lower deck
Loei to Chiang Mai by Bus
From Loei town center, take a tuk-tuk ride to the bus station, B30. There is only one bus station.
As of June 28, 2020 (still on Covid schedule), there are only 3 night trips: 8:30pm, 9:30pm and 12 midnight. 9 hours, B470.
The bus makes the following stops at the following times from a 9pm Loei departure: Phu Ruea (9:50pm), Phitsanulok (12:40am), Uttradit (2:20am), Lampang (4:35am)
Final bus stop is at the Red Bus Arcade, Chiang Mai, 9 hour-trip, arriving 6am (from 9pm Loei departure).
Take a red songthaew to Old City, B50. They'll try to charge you B100, but they'll take B50 (just assure the driver you won't tell the other passengers).
How to Get a 60-Day Thai Tourist Visa and then Extend by another 30 Days
This process is BEFORE Covid 19. Not sure what it is now.
60-Day Thai Tourist Visa
NOTE: There is no need to go back to your country to get the Thai tourist visa. Any major city with a Thai Embassy will do. Apparently there is also no need to have an invitation from a Thai establishment to justify the visa.
Bring the following to the Thai embassy:
a) proof of money (bank statement will suffice)
b) flight booking to Thailand
c) onward flight back to your country from Thailand
d) filled-in tourist visa form
e) 2 passport pictures
f) hotel booking in Thailand (they didn't ask me for this but better be safe)
g) passport with at least 6 months validity
After handing over all the documents, they will ask you to come pick your passport with the visa the following day from 4 to 5pm. That's it!
NOTE: after 2 successful attempts, I was already questioned the 3rd time.
30-Day Extension
NOTE: When your 60-day visa is close to expiry and you want to extend your stay. No need to leave Thailand.
bring the following to the Immigration Office:
a) passport (make sure your Tourist Visa hasn't expired yet)
b) Baht 1900
c) photocopy of your passport + visa duration date stamp + TM6 card (white immigration card) and sign all the copies
d) completed TM7 visa extension form (available at the Immigration Office)
e) one 4cmx6cm passport picture
submit the above to the Front Desk. They will give you a stub with your number on it. Take a seat and wait for your number to be called
when your number is called, your picture will be taken. Then go back to your seat. They will call you again.
when they call you again, they'll give you your passport with your extended visa. That's it!
when there are no lines, the whole process can take only 10 minutes
arrive early - in case there is a snag (visa snag, documentation snag, transport ticket snag, etc.), you will have ample time to troubleshoot the problem if you arrive early (to the airport, to the bus terminal, etc.)
put detailed itinerary on the Calendar apps of your smart-phone according to timelines - this is where you do all your thinking and planning. Once written down, you don't have to think anymore while you are on the journey...you just follow the steps. This frees your mind for something else that might happen while you are already en route
avoiding scams - as a general rule, I ignore the touts or anyone I don't know who call out to me. The calling comes in many forms - "Hi! Where are you from?", "Excuse me! Excuse me!", "Where are you going?". I don't look them in the eye and I remain non-verbal with them. If you reply to them, you just gave them an 'in' to hound you. In order not to look rude, I smile and wave the 'not interested' hand to them, without looking at them.
power bank - hand-carry your power bank. Do not check it in. You can be called in when you are already inside the plane to go all the way to the loading dock so you can personally remove the power bank...and chances are, you'll have to surrender it to them. And you might delay the plane departure!