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Window Seat [His Precious] Nov 1, 2018

Window Seat [His Precious]

Location: Chao Phraya River, Bangkok, Thailand

Comfort on the Window Seat
On the ferry along the Chao Phraya River, a man on the window seat was making the most of the view as he was comfortably seated while others were standing up on the crowded ferry. He must have been thinking, "I am so lucky to have this seat while the others are standing up."

Window Seat [His Precious]

Drenched
Suddenly, it rained and accumulated rain water was pouring down on his seat, getting him drenched. The entire length of the boat trip, he was so miserable trying to keep himself dry by redirecting the water but to no avail. Other people even tried to help him out by offering him napkins and tissues. It would seem like a normal thing that can happen to anyone. Then a realization hit me!

Attachment to the Window Seat
Why didn't he just leave the 'window seat' to spare him all that inconvenience? Obviously, the people standing up were having a much easier time than him with his 'window seat'.

Real Life Analogy
The realization got more interesting when I saw an analogy to real life. I heard of a popular actress in the Philippines who married a scion of a wealthy Chinese family. She was probably not well educated but she had the killer looks to snare the wealthy man. She lived the life - big house, lots of domestic helpers, delicious food on the table, travel perk, etc.

Of course it was a different story for the rest of the Chinese clan. She was seen as an unfit bride who married for money. Restrictions were imposed on her every move - where she can or cannot go, what she can and cannot do. She was given the veiled condescension and blatant disapproval in anything she did. Of course it was a miserable life for her. Like the man who was getting drenched but wouldn't leave his window seat, she too stayed on, latching herself to her 'life of ease'.

Ending Thoughts
What am I to make out of all this? Attachment! The man was so attached to his window seat he thought he was ahead of the game from everyone else who was standing, not realizing he was the most miserable guy on the boat. He totally missed the point that the people standing up were all ok and he was not. Would any of those standing-up trade places with him? Of course not! He stubbornly refused to leave his precious seat. The actress? Same thing.

This same scenario is repeated everyday in countless zombie lives. Are you living one?

--- TheLoneRider
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Useful Information

Bangkok Blogs by TheLoneRider
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  2. Bangkok for Passport Renewal Mar 17-21, 2021
  3. Bangkok with $19 Dec 8-11, 2018
  4. 30 Days - Goodbye Bangkok Nov 8, 2018
  5. Revolving Peoplescape of Bangkok Oct 8 - Nov 8, 2018
  6. Food and Friendship at Dalad Vietnamese Oct 8 - Nov 8, 2018
  7. Movie Review: First Reformed (2017) Nov 6, 2018
  8. Doing Online Work at The Work Loft Nov 5, 2018
  9. Window Seat [His Precious] Nov 1, 2018
  10. Surreal Odyssey at Bangkok Float Center Oct 29/31, 2018
  11. Bangkok Halloween with Rinna and Steve Oct 27, 2018
  12. Push-Ups Oct 22/24, 2018
  13. Pad Thai at Thip Samai, Bangkok Oct 16, 2018
  14. Birthday Walkabout Oct 16, 2018
  15. Coming to Terms with Donations Oct 14, 2018
  16. Feelin' Da Blues at Adhere the 13th Blues Bar Oct 12, 2018
  17. Visiting the Grand Palace of Thailand Oct 12, 2018
  18. A Web Mandate in Bangkok Oct 8, 2018
  19. 29 Days in Bangkok: Thank You and Goodbye Aug 27 - Sep 24, 2018
  20. Calling the Bangkok Police Sep 23, 2018
  21. Movie Review: Mindfulness and Murder (2011) Sep 22, 2018
  22. Yoga Inversions at Now's Fitness Gym Sep 19, 2018
  23. Flow Yoga with Teacher Kea at Now's Fitness Sep 18, 2018
  24. Movie Review: Under Construction (2015) Sep 15, 2018
  25. Walking Tour of Little India Sep 15, 2018
  26. Vinyasa Yoga with Teacher That at Now's Fitness Sep 14, 2018
  27. Abs Workout with Teacher San at Now's Fitness Sep 13, 2018
  28. Vinyasa Yoga with Teacher That at Now's Fitness Sep 14, 2018
  29. Abs Workout with Teacher San at Now's Fitness Sep 13, 2018
  30. Exercise Ball Workout with Teacher Bie at Now's Fitness Sep 11, 2018
  31. Exploring the Amphawa Floating Market Sep 9, 2018
  32. Exploring the Tree-Engulfed Wat Bang Kung Temple Sep 9, 2018
  33. Parting of the Maeklong Railway Market with a Passing Train Sep 9, 2018
  34. Exploring Damnoen Saduak Floating Market Sep 9, 2018
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  41. Abundance at On Nut, Bangkok Aug 30-Sep 1, 2018
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  55. Bangkok's Street Food Delight Oct 6-20, 2014
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Bangkok Cost Index

as of Sep 4, 2018: US$1 = Baht 32 = Php 53

  • Bht 60 sm, 90 big one mug draft beer
  • Bht 13 1.5 liter drinking water
  • Bht 220 one hour massage
  • Bht 60-80 muesli breakfast
  • Bht 60-80 tom yum soup in modest eatery
  • Bht 25-30 coffee
  • Bht 30-50 pad thai
  • Bht 350 Adventure Hostel lodging
  • Bht 20-30/load laundry, coin operated machine
  • Bht 7 bus ride
Transport Maps of Bangkok
  1. Chao Phraya Express, MRT, BTS, Khlong boats, Airport Link
  2. Bus Routes: 1-14
  3. Bus Routes: 15-30
  4. Bus Routes: 32-49
  5. Bus Routes: 50-70
  6. Bus Routes: 71-88
  7. Bus Routes: 501-516
  8. individual bus routes
Bangkok to Chiang Mai by Train from Bang Sue Train Station

For more train info: Bangkok to Chiang Mai trains - departing from Hua Lamphong - MRT (Bangkok)

(I'm using Bang Sue as a starting point because I was closer to it, but you may be closer to the Hua Lamphong station)

  1. take the MRT train to Bang Sue Station. Take the #1 Exit to the north provincial trains
  2. Proceed to Counter 2. You will see an information booth, a train schedule chart and the ticket counter. Choose the train and pay at the ticket counter.
  3. daily train schedule:
    • 8:48am - #7 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 7:30pm, not sleeper, B638
    • 2:06pm - #109 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 4:05am, sleeper
    • 6:31pm - #9 Premium Train, arrive Chiang Mai 7:15am, sleeper, B938 upper deck, B1038 lower deck
    • 7:56pm - #13 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 8:40am, sleeper, B768 upper deck, B838 lower deck
    • 10:22pm - #51 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 12:10pm, sleeper, 3rd class B270 (non sleeper), 2nd class B438, B728 upper deck, B798 lower deck

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