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Eye-Gazing at Heart Space Sep 20, 2019

Eye-Gazing at Heart Space

Venue Nong Buak Hard Public Park location: Heart Space - a gathering place for Chiang Mai's conscious community where events and activities in the pursuit of spirituality, connection and transformation are held. The gracious Gabriella Nagy hosts the events.
Google Map Nong Buak Hard Public Park location: Heart Space, Chiang Mai, Thailand

Event Page Eye-Gazing: Eye-Gazing, Where Souls Meet and Heal

Event Description
"Once you lock eyes, the journey is on. With every breath and each blink you are diving deeper into your souls. Questions may arise, but you will find them dissolving in the moment. Trust the process, your healing has already begun. Let the flow carry you, you may find yourselves somewhere you haven't been before.

The eyes are the mirror of the soul and reflect everything that seems to be hidden, and just like a mirror they also reflect the person looking into them." If you have ever eye-gazed before, you know how it feels to really, truly SEE and to really, truly BE SEEN.

Eye-gazing is a deeply healing experience, and also a form of meditation and is considered a sacred practice. Whether you eye-gaze with human beings, animals or yourself, please make sure to always start with setting your pure intention and finish up with grounding and gratitude.

In our session together, we will start with energy cleansing and intention setting. We will continue with tuning into each other with various exercises... breaking boundaries, warming hearts. After eye-gazing we will have a grounding meditation and a closing ceremony."

Eye-Gazing at Heart Space

Falling in Love?
I was first told sometime back, that you can fall in love just by eye-gazing. Really? That got my attention. Not that I wanted to fall in love, but curious if that could really happen just by looking into a woman's eyes. When I attended Gab's Cacao Ceremony with a brief unexpected eye-gazing moment, it got me uncomfortable. It was too intimate and I wasn't ready. It felt like someone opened the door and saw me in my underwear. Yikes! I got a sense of just how powerful eye-gazing can be. I wanted more!

The Tribe
It was a small group - 6, including Gabriella, the hostess/high priestess. We all had small talk at the porch before the formality, so we already had a warming-up with each other. At the outset, we all introduced ourselves. Some were just passing through Chiang Mai, others have taken residency. It would be safe to say all were woke and in search of...

Gabriella gave us instructions on what to do with a partner while eye-gazing - hold hands, rhythmically sway, see the child in the partner, and press the other's hand by our chest. We did all these as we took turns in having different partners. It felt like a ritual that peeled away layers of reality as we remained present with our partners. The outside world melted away and the space we occupied with our partners became the totality of our universe.

Eye-Gazing at Heart Space
the Eye-Gazing tribe

Ending Thoughts
Eye-gazing is intense and intimate. I've managed my expectation at the outset, so it wasn't uncomfortable unlike the first time. It wasn't about sizing-up or analyzing the person in front of me. This time, it was more of openness and surrender to the process. Even though no words were exchanged, a lot of narratives were traded - "How do we break the barriers that separate us?", "How far can we push this intimacy with this much space between us?", "Are there looming possibilities on the horizon?". At the end of it, it was also a test how comfortable you are under your own skin. How anchored you are in your here-and-now.

Well, the burning question is...did I fall in love? Ha-ha! I think all the ingredients of falling in love should already be there to begin with. The eye-gazing is simply a catalyst - the last straw on the camel's back to make it all happen. But perhaps I'm wrong. Perhaps the question is, "How long should people eye-gaze until they fall in love?" All this pondering only give away that I have time on my hands...ha-ha-ha, or as they say in Thailand, 55555. If you don't get it, you haven't stayed in Thailand long enough!

I felt comfortable with everyone. It was a small and manageable group, so I invited everyone to gather again at a later date for coffee at Nawa Saraan. Hopefully, Gabriella can even make it this time.

Again, thank you Gabriella for making me a part of this wonderful event 🙂🙏

--- Gigit (TheLoneRider)
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Chiang Mai, Thailand

important places in Chiang Mai IMPORTANT PLACES
Chiang Mai Bus Station Bus Station
Chiang Mai Train Station Train Station
Chiang Mai airport Chiang Mai International Airport
Nong Buak Hard Park Nong Buak Hard Park - free yoga classes daily

hotels in Chiang Mai HOTEL
Chiang Mai Arun Dara Villa Arun Dara Villa - 7 exclusive rooms, 1 swimming pool for every room, grand opening
Chiang Mai Nawa Sheeva Hotel Nawa Sheeva Hotel - big rooms, high ceiling, salt-water pool, restaurant, cafe
Chiang Mai Nawa Saraan Hotel Nawa Saraan Hotel - low density (4 spacious rooms), stone garden setting, Koi fish pond, Old City location
Arun Suite, Chiang Mai Arun Suite - 3 bedrooms in a 3-storie guesthouse within Old City, ideal for families

birds nest restaurants in Chiang Mai RESTAURANT
La Pizza Chiang Mai La Pizza Chiang Mai - Italian pizza, pasta, wine, dessert, coffee
Chiang Mai birds nest restaurant Natural Bird Nest by Burapa - authentic bird's nest soup

Thai massage in Chiang Mai WELLNESS
ITM  International Training Massage School ITM - International Training Massage School - Chiang Mai's most prestigious massage school
Float Chiang Mai Float Chiang Mai - sensory deprivation float pod
Chiang Mai, Royal Thai Lanna Massage Zira Spa - upscale authentic Thai massage and spa treatment

motorcycle rental in Chiang Mai MOTORBIKE RENTAL
Chiang Mai birds nest motorcycle Tawan Bike - motorcycle rental | +66 91 635 2863 | Si Phum, Mueang Chiang Mai District, Chiang Mai 50200


Chiang Mai FYI / Tips
  • crop-burning season in Chiang Mai is between late Feb to early April. But laws change everytime. This year, 2019, there is a 61-day ban on burning so the farmers started burning early. When my plane was approaching Chiang Mai on Jan 24, 2019, there was already a thick blanket of smog covering the entire city (and beyond). But within the city itself, you won't feel it (but that doesn't mean the air is healthy). To monitor air conditions in real time, refer to site: Chiang Mai Air Pollution: Real-time Air Quality Index (AQI)
  • hot season begins March and lasts until June
  • wet season begins July and lasts until September
  • best time to visit Chiang Mai is mid-September to mid-February - after the monsoon and before the burning
  • you have to try Khao Soi, this is north Thailand's culinary staple
  • the tourist area where most of the hotels, restaurants, ticket offices, tour operators are, is located in the Old City
  • to exchange your dollars to Thai Baht, the Super Rich Money Exchange give the best rates. There are many branches scattered around Chiang Mai
  • get a red cab (songthao) outside the train station for Baht 50 (instead of paying B100 if inside the train station) to Old City - if you haggle nicely enough...I did!
  • shared red taxi (songthao) - B30 standard fare plying all over Old City
  • for only B50/day, best to rent a bike to go around the Old City - it's a 2.5km2 with lots to discover
  • FREE daily yoga classes from 9:00am to 10:15am at Nong Buak Hard Park (southwest corner of Old City). Resident and passing-through teachers take turns conducting yoga classes.
Blues/Jazz Bars in Chiang Mai
  1. North Gate Pub - at Chang Phueg Gate, great Tuesday jam session, Blues on Sundays by the 11pm band
  2. Taphae East - 88 Thapae Rd. (just north of Night Bazaar). Fridays at 9:30pm by Chiang Mai Blues Band
  3. Boy Blues Bar - at the Night Bazaar. Mondays at 9:30pm is open mic
Chiang Mai Cost Index
  • B60 Chiang beer
  • B250 1 hour drop-in yoga session
  • B200 one hour Thai body massage at WAYA Massage (highly recommended)
  • B50 noodle soup with meat
  • B50 coffee
  • B40 pad thai
  • B30/kilo wash-only laundry
  • B50/kilo wash+iron laundry
  • B100-150 dorm bed/night
  • B250 fan room/night
  • B30 internet cafe/hour
  • B170-190 Movies Sat-Sun and public holidays
  • B130-150 Movies weekdays
  • B100 Movies Wednesdays (movie discount day)
  • B750 1/2 day Thai cooking lessons
  • B900-1000 1 full day Thai cooking lessons
  • B400 Muay Thai boxing ticket
  • B2500 starting room rate at the luxury hotel, Nawa Sheeva (highly recommended)

  • Transportation
  • B450 bus, Chiang Mai to Bangkok
  • B160-180 bus, Chiang Mai to Pai
  • B1250 bus, Chiang Mai to Luang Prabang
  • B1650 slow boat, Chiang Mai to Luang Prabang
  • B210 bus, Chiang Mai to Chiang Rai, 3-4 hours
  • B360 Green VIP bus, Chiang Mai to Mae Sai (Thai border town for visa run to Tachileik, Myanmar)
  • B50 bicycle rental, 24 hours
  • B200 motorbike rental, 24 hours
  • B273 #51 sleeping train from Bangkok to Chiang Mai
  • B638 #7 a/c train from Bangkok to Chiang Mai
  • B50 red taxi fare from point to point
  • B100 red taxi fare from train terminal to city

  • Tours
  • B2000 full day elephant sanctuary
  • B750 Chiang Rai one-day tour
  • B1500 mountain biking scenic ride
How to Get to Chiang Mai from Bangkok by Train from Bang Sue Train Station

For more train info: Bangkok to Chiang Mai trains - departing from Hua Lamphong - MRT (Bangkok)

(I'm using Bang Sue as a starting point because I was closer to it, but you may be closer to the Hua Lamphong station)

  1. take the MRT train to Bang Sue Station. Take the #1 Exit to the north provincial trains
  2. Proceed to Counter 2. You will see an information booth, a train schedule chart and the ticket counter. Choose the train and pay at the ticket counter.
  3. daily train schedule:
    • 8:48am - #7 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 7:30pm, not sleeper, B638
    • 2:06pm - #109 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 4:05am, sleeper
    • 6:31pm - #9 Premium Train, arrive Chiang Mai 7:15am, sleeper, B938 upper deck, B1038 lower deck
    • 7:56pm - #13 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 8:40am, sleeper, B768 upper deck, B838 lower deck
    • 10:22pm - #51 Train, arrive Chiang Mai 12:10pm, sleeper, 3rd class B270 (non sleeper), 2nd class B438, B728 upper deck, B798 lower deck
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  1. Ling Mudra Oct 17, 2019
  2. Movie Review: Official Secrets (2019) Oct 15, 2019
  3. Jalandhara Bandha Mudra Oct 7, 2019
  4. Learning Thai with Cee Oct 13, 2019
  5. Uddiyana Bandha Mudra Oct 10, 2019
  6. Nabho Mudra Oct 9, 2019
  7. Movie Review: Joker (2019) Oct 8, 2019
  8. Maha Mudra Oct 7, 2019
  9. 20 Essential Mudras by T. Krishnamacharya Oct. 6, 2019
  10. Mindfulness Gong Bath by Vee (Veerayuth Pongsiri) Oct 3, 2019
  11. Cuddle Party by Abundant Love CM Oct 1, 2019
  12. Vayu Mudra Oct 1, 2019
  13. Movie Review: Hail Satan? (2019) Sep 29, 2019
  14. Visa-Run to Tachileik, Myanmar Sep 28, 2019
  15. Sankalpa Mudra Sep 27, 2019
  16. Surya Pradarshini Mudra Sep 26, 2019
  17. Movie Review: Ad Astra (2019) Sep 25, 2019
  18. Movie Review: Rambo 5 Sep 22, 2019
  19. Eye-Gazing at Heart Space Sep 20, 2019
  20. Vayu (Pranic Wind) Sep 20, 2019
  21. 2-Week Yoga Challenge by Agnese Erba Sep 17, 2019
  22. Movie Review: Farewell Song (2019) Sep 16, 2019
  23. The Mudra Project Sep 13, 2019
  24. Movie Review: Once Upon a Time in Hollywood (2019) Sep 12, 2019
  25. Sunday Vinyasa Flow with Marina Forster Sep 8, 2019
  26. Shamanic Breathwork by Rachel Constantino Sep 4, 2019
  27. Movie Review: Yesterday (2019) Sep 3, 2019
  28. The Conscious Peoplescape of Chiang Mai Aug 31, 2019
  29. Movie Review: Midsommar (2019) Aug 28, 2019
  30. Of Winos and Yogis Aug 26, 2019
  31. Movie Review: Ready or Not (2019) Aug 22, 2019
  32. The 9 Jhanas of Buddha Aug 22, 2019
  33. Full Moon Ceremony at Heart Space Aug 15, 2019
  34. Yin Yoga - Water Element by Martina Barabas Aug 15, 2019
  35. Movie Review: The Art of Racing in the Rain (2019) Aug 14, 2019
  36. Hatha Mix Yoga with Christin Aug 13, 2019
  37. Boy Blues Bar Rocks Chiang Mai Aug 5, 2019
  38. Back to my Beloved Chiang Mai Aug 1, 2019
  39. Kaleidoscope of Chiang Mai's Peoplescape July 27, 2019
  40. Secret Sunrise: Nelson Mandela International Day July 17, 2019
  41. Movie Review: Anna (2019) July 15, 2019
  42. Farewell Picnic with Alan and Nicola July 15, 2019
  43. Movie Review: Spider-Man: Far from Home (2019) July 4, 2019
  44. Secret Sunrise: Water July 3, 2019
  45. Hotel Review: Arun Suite June 27, 2019
  46. Movie Review: Rocketman (2019) June 25, 2019
  47. Bruce Lipton: Epigentics to Transcend Genes June 24, 2019
  48. Optimizing Life thru Heart Math May 8, 15 and 22, 2019
  49. Movie Review: Aladdin (2019) June 13, 2019
  50. Connective Cacao and Sound Journey June 12, 2019
  51. Movie Review: X-Men: Dark Phoenix (2019) June 6, 2019
  52. Chiangmai BLUES June 6, 2019
  53. Movie Review: John Wick 3 - Parabellum (2019) June 4, 2019
  54. Hatha Slow Flow with Neil Jefferson June 3, 2019
  55. Meditating with One Million Meditators Movement June 1, 2019
  56. Vinyasa Happy Flow Series by Vaida May 31, 2019
  57. Muay Thai at the Chiang Mai Boxing Stadium May 30, 2019
  58. Yoga Flow Through the 7 Chakras May 30, 2019
  59. The Outsiders (people you need to push out of your sacred circle) May 31, 2019
  60. Fascinating Peoplescape of Chiang Mai May 22, 2019
  61. World Meditation Day at Heart Space May 21, 2019
  62. Movie Review: Avengers: Endgame (2019) May 14, 2019
  63. Movie Review: Arctic (2018) May 13, 2019
  64. Abs Yoga May 12, 2019
  65. Kundalini and Vinyasa Yoga with Nicola Symons May 10, 2019
  66. Secret Sunrise Interactive Dance May 9, 2019
  67. Tok Sen Massage from Ying May 8, 2019
  68. Bruschetta: Nawa Saraan Style Apr 22, 2019
  69. Thai Cooking at Pra Nang Thai Cookery School Apr 20, 2019
  70. Movie Review: Hellboy (2019) Apr 15, 2019
  71. Bonding with the Elephants in Chiang Mai Apr 11, 2019
  72. Ziplining in Chiang Mai with Eagle Track Zipline Apr 10, 2019
  73. Movie Review: Shazam! (2019) Apr 4, 2019
  74. Movie Review: Captive State (2019) Mar 27, 2019
  75. Getting Thai Massage from Chiang Mai's Best (Lar Thanakrit Khamtanong) Mar 21, 2019
  76. Movie Review: Captain Marvel (2019) Mar 19, 2019
  77. Being the Soul of Nawa Saraan Hotel Mar 18, 2019
  78. Peoplescape of Chiang Mai Jan 24 - Mar 13, 2019
  79. Movie Review: Vox Lux (2018) Mar 2, 2019
  80. Movie Review: The Favourite (2018) Feb 25, 2019
  81. Curing Cancer with Yoga? Feb 21, 2019
  82. Movie Review: Alita Battle Angel Feb 19, 2019
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  84. Sandesch Album Launch by Christoph Joerg Feb 13, 2019
  85. Movie Review: Spider-Man - Into the Spider-Verse (2018) Feb 3, 2018
  86. Movie Review: Green Book Jan 30, 2019
  87. Meditation in a Sensory Deprivation Tank at Float Chiang Mai Jan 29, 2019
  88. Bohemian Rhapsody (2018) Jan 27, 2019
  89. Movie Review: Aquaman Jan 26, 2019
  90. Reiki Share at the Mastermind Brain Spa Jan 26, 2019
  91. Resuming Life in Chiang Mai Jan 24, 2019
  92. 4 Days in Chiang Mai at Nawa Saraan Hotel Jan 2-6, 2019
  93. Mike Chong Aug 8, 2018
  94. An Intimate Conversation with my Universe in Chiang Mai Aug 8, 2018
  95. Kneaded and Pampered at Zira Spa Aug 4, 2018
  96. Savoring a Baht 3,500 Birds Nest Soup at Natural Bird Nest by Burapa Aug 3, 2018
  97. Yoga Exploration at The Yoga Tree with Gernot Aug 1, 2018
  98. Laughter Yoga with Saffiya Arnous July 31, 2018
  99. Yoga with Adam at Hidden House Yoga, Chiang Mai July 29, 2018
  100. 2 Weeks in Chiang Mai July 25 - Aug 7, 2018
  101. A First Timer in Chiang Mai Apr 9-23, 2016
  102. Chiang Mai's Amazing Peoplescape Apr 9-23, 2016
  103. Dance Mandala in Chiang Mai at The Yoga Tree Apr 19, 2016
  104. Songkran Waterfight Festival in Chiang Mai Apr 13-15, 2016
  105. Border Crossing from Siem Reap (Cambodia) to Bangkok (Thailand) to Chiang Mai April 9-10, 2016

Travel Tips for Thailand

How to Get a 60-Day Thai Tourist Visa and then Extend by another 30 Days

    60-Day Thai Tourist Visa

    NOTE: There is no need to go back to your country to get the Thai tourist visa. Any major city with a Thai Embassy will do. Apparently there is also no need to have an invitation from a Thai establishment to justify the visa.

  1. Bring the following to the Thai embassy:
    a) proof of money (bank statement will suffice)
    b) flight booking to Thailand
    c) onward flight back to your country from Thailand
    d) filled-in tourist visa form
    e) 2 passport pictures
    f) hotel booking in Thailand (they didn't ask me for this but better be safe)
    g) passport with at least 6 months validity
  2. After handing over all the documents, they will ask you to come pick your passport with the visa the following day from 4 to 5pm. That's it!
  3. NOTE: after 2 successful attempts, I was already questioned the 3rd time.

    30-Day Extension

    NOTE: When your 60-day visa is close to expiry and you want to extend your stay. No need to leave Thailand.

  1. bring the following to the Immigration Office:
    a) passport (make sure your Tourist Visa hasn't expired yet)
    b) Baht 1900
    c) photocopy of your passport + visa duration date stamp + TM6 card (white immigration card) and sign all the copies
    d) completed TM7 visa extension form (available at the Immigration Office)
    e) one 4cmx6cm passport picture
  2. submit the above to the Front Desk. They will give you a stub with your number on it. Take a seat and wait for your number to be called
  3. when your number is called, your picture will be taken. Then go back to your seat. They will call you again.
  4. when they call you again, they'll give you your passport with your extended visa. That's it!
  5. when there are no lines, the whole process can take only 10 minutes
General Travel Tips
  1. arrive early - in case there is a snag (visa snag, documentation snag, transport ticket snag, etc.), you will have ample time to troubleshoot the problem if you arrive early (to the airport, to the bus terminal, etc.)
  2. put detailed itinerary on the Calendar apps of your smart-phone according to timelines - this is where you do all your thinking and planning. Once written down, you don't have to think anymore while you are on the just follow the steps. This frees your mind for something else that might happen while you are already en route
  3. avoiding scams - as a general rule, I ignore the touts or anyone I don't know who call out to me. The calling comes in many forms - "Hi! Where are you from?", "Excuse me! Excuse me!", "Where are you going?". I don't look them in the eye and I remain non-verbal with them. If you reply to them, you just gave them an 'in' to hound you. In order not to look rude, I smile and wave the 'not interested' hand to them, without looking at them.
  4. power bank - hand-carry your power bank. Do not check it in. You can be called in when you are already inside the plane to go all the way to the loading dock so you can personally remove the power bank...and chances are, you'll have to surrender it to them. And you might delay the plane departure!

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